As nurses, we are often in situations in which we call upon our instinct, or that gut feeling. We might feel that something isn’t quite right with a patient. Face it, we all know that our patients are quite focused and steadfast when it comes to making sure they don’t miss a chemotherapy treatment, but I am sure we have all had situations in which information has been withheld by patients during the assessment process.
At this time, we often have a gut feeling that something just isn’t quite right with the patient. I believe that this instinct has evolved through the development of assessment skills, understanding patient responses, and interpreting cues such as body language.
We might just have a tendency to withhold that information from ourselves too. As well as being nurses, we have many other roles—parent, spouse/partner, friend, etc., and these roles also take much physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual effort. Nursing is such a caring and giving profession, but even the best of us can become burnt out. We need to listen to that gut feeling when it comes to our own well-being too.
Take the time to look after yourself and do something just for you. (These words echoed through me today while I had a massage. It’s my attempt to pay attention to that gut feeling for myself.)
Fiona Sayer works in the outpatient department in a rural hospital in New Zealand and administers chemotherapy. She is a New Zealand registered comprehensive nurse with a diploma, a bachelor's degree in nursing, and a postgraduate certificate in Health Sciences. She is currently studying for her postgraduate diploma.
Way to take care of yourself, Fiona! Great reminder.